{"id":17354,"date":"2009-04-11T15:44:37","date_gmt":"2009-04-11T13:44:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?p=17354"},"modified":"2009-04-11T15:45:00","modified_gmt":"2009-04-11T13:45:00","slug":"flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/","title":{"rendered":"Flet n\u00ebna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth-big-brother-albania-2\"<\/a>Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb tip i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ai k\u00ebrkon femra t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00cb<\/strong><\/span>sht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb jav\u00eb q\u00eb kur Ari ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e \u201cBig Brother\u201d dhe publiku jasht\u00eb, ashtu si banor\u00ebt brenda, po p\u00ebrpiqet ta njoh\u00eb. Ju jeni n\u00ebna e tij dhe padyshim q\u00eb e njihni m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ne\u2026 <\/span><\/strong>Ari ka lindur si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i urt\u00eb, i bukur dhe q\u00eb m\u00ebsonte shum\u00eb. Nuk mbaj mend t\u00eb m\u00eb ket\u00eb trokitur njeri n\u00eb der\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u2019u ankuar p\u00ebr Arin. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ekuilibruar, autoritar, me personalitet. Me raste ka ndonj\u00eb shp\u00ebrthim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, por kjo ndodh sepse Arit i ka ecur jeta vaj dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb si ai njeriu q\u00eb kur nuk i vjen di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr shtat, reagon si nj\u00eb flak\u00eb kashte, por bie shpejt. Di t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb falur, di ta zgjedh\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebs p\u00ebr veten e tij. <\/span><\/p>\n

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasqyra e prind\u00ebrve\u2026 <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ari i ngjan t\u00eb atit. <\/span>Im shoq ishte nga ata njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kur hynte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, k\u00ebrkonte respektin nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij. U them shpesh t\u00eb dy djemve t\u00eb mi se, sikur t\u00eb marrin 50 p\u00ebr qind nga babai i tyre, do ishin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Shpesh i thosha tim shoqi: \u201cTi je gjerman\u201d, sepse kishte veti disiplin\u00ebn, nj\u00eb karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe korrekt\u00ebsin\u00eb. \u00c7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb djemt\u00eb e mi vijn\u00eb e m\u00eb thon\u00eb se babi ka pasur t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. \u00c7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb vijn\u00eb te karakteri i babait t\u00eb tyre. Nuk e di, ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e till\u00eb. Ari ka trash\u00ebguar nga i ati korrekt\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe autoritetin. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nga babai ka marr\u00eb edhe respektin ndaj femrave? <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Po, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. <\/span>Im shoq thoshte shpesh me shaka: \u201cKurr\u00eb nuk kam dit me i shku pas nj\u00eb femre\u201d. Ari i respekton femrat. Kur Ari ishte student, mbesa ime m\u00eb thoshte: \u201cTeze, t\u00eb gjitha femrat e Filologjikut l\u00ebn\u00eb kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u201d (qesh). Nuk e di, un\u00eb jam n\u00ebn\u00eb, por kam d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb tjerat t\u00eb thon\u00eb se Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb mashkulli ideal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aktualisht Ari po p\u00ebrjeton ndonj\u00eb lidhje?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>Jo, me sa di un\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n

Po a ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ai t\u00eb afrohet me ndonj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej banoreve n\u00eb BB? <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb tip i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Ai k\u00ebrkon femra t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura. Kur i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, i l\u00eb ta n\u00ebnkuptoj\u00eb simpatin\u00eb q\u00eb ka, por n\u00eb fakt nuk afrohet asnj\u00ebher\u00eb i pari. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb jep p\u00ebrshtypjen sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb i ftoht\u00eb, por veprimet e mendimet e tij mund t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e zgjuar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Kush ia dha Arit iden\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb \u201cBig Brother\u201d?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ari vendimet i merr vet\u00eb, por t\u00eb v\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni.Ari ka hyr\u00eb me mendimin p\u00ebr t\u2019ia dal\u00eb dhe do t\u2019ia dal\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, kur m\u00eb tha t\u00eb shtun\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes: \u2018Ma, m\u00eb b\u00ebj gati valixhen!\u2019, shtanga. \u00c7far\u00eb stresi kalova at\u00eb dit\u00eb! Q\u00ebndrova t\u00ebr\u00eb nat\u00ebn pa gjum\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n

E keni ndjekur k\u00ebto dit\u00eb ecurin\u00eb e Arit brenda n\u00eb BB?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>E ndjek shum\u00eb pak, pasi po t\u00eb shikoj nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, e p\u00ebrjetoj shum\u00eb keq. Them se po p\u00ebrshtatet, ndon\u00ebse banor\u00ebt jan\u00eb natyra krejt t\u00eb ndryshme nga Ari. Por ai po gjen forc\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i p\u00ebrballuar. Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i formuar, ai ka lexuar shum\u00eb dhe zot\u00ebron kat\u00ebr gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb huaja. Ai shikon vlera te vetja dhe shikon q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga vetja. Po harxhon koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb prezantuar veten, p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim. <\/span>Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i tij? <\/span><\/strong>Para se t\u00eb hynte m\u00eb tha: \u2018Ma, do futem sepse dua t\u00eb ndryshoj di\u00e7ka nga jeta ime\u2019. Sigurisht q\u00eb ana materiale ekziston, pasi parat\u00eb i duhen p\u00ebr shkoll\u00ebn, por ai do q\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb. Di q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe di\u00e7ka me shkoll\u00ebn, por nuk ma ka shpjeguar me holl\u00ebsi. Futja n\u00eb BB \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb n\u00eb komunitet.Aty arrin t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh sesi p\u00ebrshtatesh me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe jo vet\u00ebm nga niveli intelektual. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta dhe njer\u00ebzit sado m\u00eb posht\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb, nuk duhen p\u00ebr\u00e7muar, por duhen mbajtur af\u00ebr. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00ebsht\u00eb Ari n\u00eb familje?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i ndjesh\u00ebm. Sa her\u00eb vinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, i hidhte duart n\u00eb qaf\u00eb t\u00eb atit dhe e puthte. Sa her\u00eb kujton t\u00eb atin, p\u00ebrlotet, ndoshta ngaq\u00eb vdekja e tij ishte shum\u00eb e papritur. Edhe me mua ka nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie mjaft t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Kur mbaj q\u00ebndrim dhe nuk i flas, i mbetet mendja dhe p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb p\u00ebrse m\u00eb ka m\u00ebrzitur. Nuk del kurr\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia pa m\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetur. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si ju duken banor\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb t\u00eb BB?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>I shoh, i gjykoj, por edhe m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb. T\u00eb betohem! I shoh se jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vit, pavar\u00ebsisht se ata t\u00eb gjith\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb loj\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, m\u00eb vjen keq kur shikoj se banor\u00ebt po b\u00ebjn\u00eb interpretime t\u00eb gabuara p\u00ebr skenar\u00eb t\u00eb parap\u00ebrgatitur e t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto, sidomos Qetsori. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ky q\u00ebndrim i tyre ju b\u00ebn t\u2019i shikoni me sy tjet\u00ebr? <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Jo, absolutisht jo, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb loj\u00eb dhe un\u00eb besoj se do t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb m\u00eb i miri. K\u00ebt\u00eb do ta vendos\u00eb sjellja e tyre. Un\u00eb k\u00ebnaqem kur i shoh bashk\u00eb. Jam e k\u00ebnaqur q\u00eb Ari mori pjes\u00eb, se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shk\u00ebputur nga nj\u00eb realitet q\u00eb nuk i p\u00eblqente, se mori nj\u00eb iniciativ\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrballuar at\u00eb gj\u00eb, pasi mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e madhe. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb atje e po b\u00ebn shoq\u00ebri dhe kur t\u00eb dal\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb miq t\u00eb mir\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb hobesh ka Ari?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>Arit i p\u00eblqen dega p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ka studiuar. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb punoj\u00eb si menaxher. Gjithashtu i p\u00eblqen informacioni dhe do q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb informacion p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. I p\u00eblqen tenisi dhe e praktikon shum\u00eb, ashtu si edhe notin. Edhe i ati ka qen\u00eb nj\u00ebsh n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebr not. Q\u00ebndronte me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra n\u00ebn uj\u00eb. <\/span>Veshja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb hobi p\u00ebr Arin? <\/span><\/strong>As q\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb t\u2019i blesh rroba si peshqesh. Kam hequr dor\u00eb prej vitesh, pasi ai ka shije krejt t\u00eb ndryshme nga un\u00eb. Rrobat e tij jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe tip elegant, edhe tip sportiv. \u00cbsht\u00eb i past\u00ebr qelibar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ju bezdisin thashethemet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb hapen n\u00eb publik mbi Arin, pasi prej nj\u00eb jave ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb person publik?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>Jo, por t\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn nuk e di n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihej mir\u00eb po t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj. N\u00eb rast se do t\u00eb ket\u00eb thashetheme, un\u00eb do t\u2019ia l\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb t\u2019i v\u00ebrtetoj\u00eb. <\/span>Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmitarja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Flet n\u00ebna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli<\/p>\n

Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb tip i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ai k\u00ebrkon femra t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura<\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb jav\u00eb q\u00eb kur Ari ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e “Big Brother” dhe publiku jasht\u00eb, ashtu si banor\u00ebt brenda, po p\u00ebrpiqet ta njoh\u00eb. Ju jeni n\u00ebna e tij dhe padyshim q\u00eb e njihni m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ne… <\/strong>Ari ka lindur si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i urt\u00eb, i bukur dhe q\u00eb m\u00ebsonte shum\u00eb. Nuk mbaj mend t\u00eb m\u00eb ket\u00eb trokitur njeri n\u00eb der\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m’u ankuar p\u00ebr Arin. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ekuilibruar, autoritar, me personalitet. Me raste ka ndonj\u00eb shp\u00ebrthim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, por kjo ndodh sepse Arit i ka ecur jeta vaj dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb si ai njeriu q\u00eb kur nuk i vjen di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr shtat, reagon si nj\u00eb flak\u00eb kashte, por bie shpejt. Di t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb falur, di ta zgjedh\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebs p\u00ebr veten e tij.<\/p>\n

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb pasqyra e prind\u00ebrve… <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ari i ngjan t\u00eb atit. Im shoq ishte nga ata njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kur hynte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, k\u00ebrkonte respektin nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij. U them shpesh t\u00eb dy djemve t\u00eb mi se, sikur t\u00eb marrin 50 p\u00ebr qind nga babai i tyre, do ishin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Shpesh i thosha tim shoqi: “Ti je gjerman”, sepse kishte veti disiplin\u00ebn, nj\u00eb karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe korrekt\u00ebsin\u00eb. \u00c7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb djemt\u00eb e mi vijn\u00eb e m\u00eb thon\u00eb se babi ka pasur t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. \u00c7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb vijn\u00eb te karakteri i babait t\u00eb tyre. Nuk e di, ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta e till\u00eb. Ari ka trash\u00ebguar nga i ati korrekt\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe autoritetin.<\/p>\n

Nga babai ka marr\u00eb edhe respektin ndaj femrave? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Po, \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Im shoq thoshte shpesh me shaka: “Kurr\u00eb nuk kam dit me i shku pas nj\u00eb femre”. Ari i respekton femrat. Kur Ari ishte student, mbesa ime m\u00eb thoshte: “Teze, t\u00eb gjitha femrat e Filologjikut l\u00ebn\u00eb kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb” (qesh). Nuk e di, un\u00eb jam n\u00ebn\u00eb, por kam d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb tjerat t\u00eb thon\u00eb se Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb mashkulli ideal.<\/p>\n

Aktualisht Ari po p\u00ebrjeton ndonj\u00eb lidhje?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Jo, me sa di un\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Po a ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ai t\u00eb afrohet me ndonj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej banoreve n\u00eb BB? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb tip i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. Ai k\u00ebrkon femra t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura. Kur i p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr, i l\u00eb ta n\u00ebnkuptoj\u00eb simpatin\u00eb q\u00eb ka, por n\u00eb fakt nuk afrohet asnj\u00ebher\u00eb i pari. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb jep p\u00ebrshtypjen sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb i ftoht\u00eb, por veprimet e mendimet e tij mund t’i kuptoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e zgjuar.<\/p>\n

Kush ia dha Arit iden\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb “Big Brother”?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ari vendimet i merr vet\u00eb, por t\u00eb v\u00eb n\u00eb dijeni.Ari ka hyr\u00eb me mendimin p\u00ebr t’ia dal\u00eb dhe do t’ia dal\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, kur m\u00eb tha t\u00eb shtun\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes: ‘Ma, m\u00eb b\u00ebj gati valixhen!’, shtanga. \u00c7far\u00eb stresi kalova at\u00eb dit\u00eb! Q\u00ebndrova t\u00ebr\u00eb nat\u00ebn pa gjum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

E keni ndjekur k\u00ebto dit\u00eb ecurin\u00eb e Arit brenda n\u00eb BB?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>E ndjek shum\u00eb pak, pasi po t\u00eb shikoj nj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen, e p\u00ebrjetoj shum\u00eb keq. Them se po p\u00ebrshtatet, ndon\u00ebse banor\u00ebt jan\u00eb natyra krejt t\u00eb ndryshme nga Ari. Por ai po gjen forc\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i p\u00ebrballuar. Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i formuar, ai ka lexuar shum\u00eb dhe zot\u00ebron kat\u00ebr gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb huaja. Ai shikon vlera te vetja dhe shikon q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb di\u00e7ka nga vetja. Po harxhon koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb prezantuar veten, p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim. Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i tij? <\/strong>Para se t\u00eb hynte m\u00eb tha: ‘Ma, do futem sepse dua t\u00eb ndryshoj di\u00e7ka nga jeta ime’. Sigurisht q\u00eb ana materiale ekziston, pasi parat\u00eb i duhen p\u00ebr shkoll\u00ebn, por ai do q\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb. Di q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe di\u00e7ka me shkoll\u00ebn, por nuk ma ka shpjeguar me holl\u00ebsi. Futja n\u00eb BB \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb n\u00eb komunitet.Aty arrin t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh sesi p\u00ebrshtatesh me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe jo vet\u00ebm nga niveli intelektual. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta dhe njer\u00ebzit sado m\u00eb posht\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb, nuk duhen p\u00ebr\u00e7muar, por duhen mbajtur af\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Si \u00ebsht\u00eb Ari n\u00eb familje?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i ndjesh\u00ebm. Sa her\u00eb vinte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, i hidhte duart n\u00eb qaf\u00eb t\u00eb atit dhe e puthte. Sa her\u00eb kujton t\u00eb atin, p\u00ebrlotet, ndoshta ngaq\u00eb vdekja e tij ishte shum\u00eb e papritur. Edhe me mua ka nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie mjaft t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Kur mbaj q\u00ebndrim dhe nuk i flas, i mbetet mendja dhe p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb p\u00ebrse m\u00eb ka m\u00ebrzitur. Nuk del kurr\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia pa m\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetur.<\/p>\n

Si ju duken banor\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb t\u00eb BB?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>I shoh, i gjykoj, por edhe m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb. T\u00eb betohem! I shoh se jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vit, pavar\u00ebsisht se ata t\u00eb gjith\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb loj\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, m\u00eb vjen keq kur shikoj se banor\u00ebt po b\u00ebjn\u00eb interpretime t\u00eb gabuara p\u00ebr skenar\u00eb t\u00eb parap\u00ebrgatitur e t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto, sidomos Qetsori.<\/p>\n

Ky q\u00ebndrim i tyre ju b\u00ebn t’i shikoni me sy tjet\u00ebr? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Jo, absolutisht jo, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb loj\u00eb dhe un\u00eb besoj se do t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb m\u00eb i miri. K\u00ebt\u00eb do ta vendos\u00eb sjellja e tyre. Un\u00eb k\u00ebnaqem kur i shoh bashk\u00eb. Jam e k\u00ebnaqur q\u00eb Ari mori pjes\u00eb, se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shk\u00ebputur nga nj\u00eb realitet q\u00eb nuk i p\u00eblqente, se mori nj\u00eb iniciativ\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrballuar at\u00eb gj\u00eb, pasi mendoj se \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e madhe. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb atje e po b\u00ebn shoq\u00ebri dhe kur t\u00eb dal\u00eb do t\u00eb ket\u00eb miq t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb hobesh ka Ari?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Arit i p\u00eblqen dega p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ka studiuar. I p\u00eblqen t\u00eb punoj\u00eb si menaxher. Gjithashtu i p\u00eblqen informacioni dhe do q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb informacion p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka. I p\u00eblqen tenisi dhe e praktikon shum\u00eb, ashtu si edhe notin. Edhe i ati ka qen\u00eb nj\u00ebsh n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebr not. Q\u00ebndronte me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra n\u00ebn uj\u00eb. Veshja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb hobi p\u00ebr Arin? <\/strong>As q\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb t’i blesh rroba si peshqesh. Kam hequr dor\u00eb prej vitesh, pasi ai ka shije krejt t\u00eb ndryshme nga un\u00eb. Rrobat e tij jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe tip elegant, edhe tip sportiv. \u00cbsht\u00eb i past\u00ebr qelibar.<\/p>\n

Ju bezdisin thashethemet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb hapen n\u00eb publik mbi Arin, pasi prej nj\u00eb jave ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb person publik?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Jo, por t\u00eb them t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn nuk e di n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihej mir\u00eb po t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte nj\u00eb gj\u00eb jo t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj. N\u00eb rast se do t\u00eb ket\u00eb thashetheme, un\u00eb do t’ia l\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb t’i v\u00ebrtetoj\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshmitarja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ari \u00ebsht\u00eb tip i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, ai k\u00ebrkon femra t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosura \u00cbsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb jav\u00eb q\u00eb kur Ari ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e \u201cBig Brother\u201d dhe publiku jasht\u00eb, ashtu si banor\u00ebt brenda, po p\u00ebrpiqet ta njoh\u00eb. Ju jeni n\u00ebna e tij dhe padyshim q\u00eb e njihni m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ne\u2026 Ari ka lindur si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[6502],"tags":[8289,8934,5057,6506,6516,6712,7129,8936,8935,6891,6693,6887],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"yoast_head":"\nFlet n\u00c3\u00abna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli | Big Brother Albania 2<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Big Brother Albania 2 - Ari \u00c3\u00absht\u00c3\u00ab tip i v\u00c3\u00abshtir\u00c3\u00ab, ai k\u00c3\u00abrkon femra t\u00c3\u00ab p\u00c3\u00abrsosura\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Flet n\u00c3\u00abna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli | Big Brother Albania 2\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Big Brother Albania 2 - Ari \u00c3\u00absht\u00c3\u00ab tip i v\u00c3\u00abshtir\u00c3\u00ab, ai k\u00c3\u00abrkon femra t\u00c3\u00ab p\u00c3\u00abrsosura\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Lajme nga Ulqini\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2009-04-11T13:44:37+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2009-04-11T13:45:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth.jpg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"ulqini\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"12 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/\",\"name\":\"Lajme nga Ulqini\",\"description\":\"Lajme,Vijesti,Ulqini,Ulqin,Crna Gora,Mali i Zi\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth.jpg\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#webpage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/\",\"name\":\"Flet n\u00c3\u00abna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli | Big Brother Albania 2\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#primaryimage\"},\"datePublished\":\"2009-04-11T13:44:37+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2009-04-11T13:45:00+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/dcab619c614d3038751c63bc2aadc06d\"},\"description\":\"Big Brother Albania 2 - Ari \u00c3\u00absht\u00c3\u00ab tip i v\u00c3\u00abshtir\u00c3\u00ab, ai k\u00c3\u00abrkon femra t\u00c3\u00ab p\u00c3\u00abrsosura\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Flet n\u00ebna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli\"}]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/dcab619c614d3038751c63bc2aadc06d\",\"name\":\"ulqini\",\"sameAs\":[\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\"],\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Flet n\u00c3\u00abna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli | Big Brother Albania 2","description":"Big Brother Albania 2 - Ari \u00c3\u00absht\u00c3\u00ab tip i v\u00c3\u00abshtir\u00c3\u00ab, ai k\u00c3\u00abrkon femra t\u00c3\u00ab p\u00c3\u00abrsosura","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Flet n\u00c3\u00abna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli | Big Brother Albania 2","og_description":"Big Brother Albania 2 - Ari \u00c3\u00absht\u00c3\u00ab tip i v\u00c3\u00abshtir\u00c3\u00ab, ai k\u00c3\u00abrkon femra t\u00c3\u00ab p\u00c3\u00abrsosura","og_url":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/","og_site_name":"Lajme nga Ulqini","article_published_time":"2009-04-11T13:44:37+00:00","article_modified_time":"2009-04-11T13:45:00+00:00","og_image":[{"url":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth.jpg"}],"twitter_misc":{"Written by":"ulqini","Est. reading time":"12 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/","name":"Lajme nga Ulqini","description":"Lajme,Vijesti,Ulqini,Ulqin,Crna Gora,Mali i Zi","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#primaryimage","url":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth.jpg","contentUrl":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/04\/arjani-dhe-anjeza-puth.jpg"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#webpage","url":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/","name":"Flet n\u00c3\u00abna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli | Big Brother Albania 2","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#primaryimage"},"datePublished":"2009-04-11T13:44:37+00:00","dateModified":"2009-04-11T13:45:00+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/dcab619c614d3038751c63bc2aadc06d"},"description":"Big Brother Albania 2 - Ari \u00c3\u00absht\u00c3\u00ab tip i v\u00c3\u00abshtir\u00c3\u00ab, ai k\u00c3\u00abrkon femra t\u00c3\u00ab p\u00c3\u00abrsosura","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/04\/11\/flet-nena-e-arjanit-lavdie-bakalli\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Flet n\u00ebna e Arjanit, Lavdie Bakalli"}]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/dcab619c614d3038751c63bc2aadc06d","name":"ulqini","sameAs":["http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com"],"url":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/author\/admin\/"}]}},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pe6lTn-4vU","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17354"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17354"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17354\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}