{"id":24596,"date":"2009-08-15T21:58:39","date_gmt":"2009-08-15T19:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?p=24596"},"modified":"2009-08-15T22:00:23","modified_gmt":"2009-08-15T20:00:23","slug":"manjola-nallbani-familja-ime-perandoria-ime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/15\/manjola-nallbani-familja-ime-perandoria-ime\/","title":{"rendered":"Manjola Nallbani: Familja ime, perandoria ime"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Manjola<\/a>Zilja e celularit, i shp\u00ebrqendron v\u00ebmendjen. I p\u00ebrgjigjet thirrjes dhe rrudh ballin aty p\u00ebr aty. Sindi, nga ana tjet\u00ebr e linj\u00ebs, qan: \u201cMami, dua t\u00eb vish t\u00eb m\u00eb marr\u00ebsh, tani, menj\u00ebher\u00eb\u2019. E vogla s\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 5 vje\u00e7 e gjysm\u00eb, tekanjoze domosdo. Ajo vet\u00eb kish qen\u00eb, q\u00eb rreth nj\u00eb or\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb i kish k\u00ebrkuar t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, ta \u00e7onte te gjyshja. Si\u00e7 f\u00ebmij\u00ebt r\u00ebndom e b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Por mesa duket, kish nd\u00ebrruar mendje shpejt dhe donte t\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi… \u201cPo shpirt, erdha\u201d, p\u00ebrgjigjet Manjola Nallbani, tashm\u00eb duke buz\u00ebqeshur. Trembja e \u00e7astit t\u00eb par\u00eb i ka kaluar, me t\u00eb marr\u00eb vesh pse qante e bija. Fundja, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar me tekat e m\u00eb t\u00eb vogl\u00ebs s\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb.<\/p>\n

I telefonon t\u00eb shoqit q\u00eb ta kryej\u00eb ai \u201cdetyr\u00ebn\u201d ndaj Sindit dhe vazhdon bised\u00ebn. Do t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pak m\u00eb von\u00eb, por jo shum\u00eb von\u00eb, sepse meq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e premte, do t\u00eb dalin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb s\u00eb bashku p\u00ebr nj\u00eb drek\u00eb. Ajo, Sokoli, Megi dhe Sindi 5- vje\u00e7are, q\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul at\u00eb mesdit\u00eb, t\u00eb mos rrij\u00eb m\u00eb gjat\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e gjyshes.<\/p>\n

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\"Manjola<\/a>Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb Manjola e sken\u00ebs, atyre \u00e7asteve. \u00cbsht\u00eb gruaja dhe n\u00ebna e dy vajzave q\u00eb po rr\u00ebfen me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb qenien e saj p\u00ebr to. Sigurisht, n\u00eb kornizimin e pamjes asgj\u00eb nuk ndryshon. Ose, m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, pothuaj asgj\u00eb. E trukuar me kujdes, e krehur (flok\u00ebt prej shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb verdha, t\u00eb zgjatura deri n\u00eb bel), me nj\u00eb fustan xhins q\u00eb i lejon t\u00eb duken linjat e p\u00ebrkryera t\u00eb gruas, edhe pse 40-vje\u00e7are, dhe nj\u00eb pal\u00eb sandale tejet verore, me ngjyra t\u00eb theksuara e t\u00eb larta. Bizhuterit\u00eb jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb pal\u00eb v\u00ebth\u00eb t\u00eb florinjt\u00eb, q\u00eb ngat\u00ebrrohen her\u00eb pas here me flok\u00ebt e gjat\u00eb dhe dy unaza. Asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb, askush nuk ka pasur rastin ta shoh\u00eb Manjola Nallbanin me nj\u00eb pamje t\u00eb shkujdesur. Sepse n\u00eb siluet\u00ebn e saj asgj\u00eb, pothuaj asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i shp\u00ebton syrit vigjilent q\u00eb e v\u00ebzhgon p\u00ebrmes pasqyr\u00ebs, n\u00eb momentin e fundit, para se t\u00eb mbyll\u00eb pas vetes der\u00ebn e apartamentit e t\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e bindur mandej, p\u00ebrmasa publike q\u00eb ka, ia imponon edhe kujdesin p\u00ebr pamjen. Por kjo, nuk n\u00ebnkupton se \u00ebsht\u00eb e t\u00ebra, sy e vesh\u00eb, n\u00eb dispozicion t\u00eb figur\u00ebs s\u00eb jashtme… Aspak, sepse ajo pjes\u00eb e saj q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me sht\u00ebpin\u00eb, familjen, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht me vajzat, \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7ka p\u00ebrthith p\u00ebrqendrimin kryesor t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes s\u00eb Manjola Nallbanit. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb thuhet se k\u00ebng\u00ebtarja e suksesshme e sken\u00ebs shqiptare, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna ideale e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb saj. Nuk ngurron t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00ebsakrifikuese, sidomos sa her\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr vajzat, Megin 16-vje\u00e7are dhe Sindin evog\u00ebl. N\u00eb k\u00ebto raste gjith\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr vjen e dyta n\u00eb list\u00eb. Sigurisht, edhe karriera. Dhe ka jo pak raste p\u00ebr t\u00eb rr\u00ebfyer, kur, meq\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb zgjedhje, ka preferuar ti thot\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d pik\u00ebrisht propozimeve t\u00eb pun\u00ebs… S\u2019ka si t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ndryshe…\u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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\"Manjola<\/a>E ngacmuar edhe nga telefonata, Manjola, fillon e flet p\u00ebr Sindin, p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb apo shijen q\u00eb i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb atmosfer\u00ebs s\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb prania e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije tjet\u00ebr, teksa f\u00ebmija i par\u00eb ishte rritur tashm\u00eb. Ama, nj\u00ebfar\u00ebsoj duhet fal\u00ebnderuar e rritura, p\u00ebr k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebse q\u00eb i drejtonte, gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs, prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb saj e q\u00eb ata, p\u00ebrfundimisht vendos\u00ebn ta marrin n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb. Sepse, n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ishte Megi ajo q\u00eb donte nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr, ose nj\u00eb v\u00eblla. E donte me \u00e7do kusht: \u201cdua nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr ose v\u00eblla, e rris vet\u00eb… ta paguaj…\u201d, kish shkruar ajo n\u00eb nj\u00eb let\u00ebr drejtuar s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs\u201d. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb histori m\u00eb vete p\u00ebr t\u2019u rr\u00ebfyer: Megi, sapo kish mbushur 11 vje\u00e7 dhe \u00e7far\u00eb donte ishte thjesht dhe vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrmbushja e k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs, asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u201clod\u00ebr\u201d ndryshe nga lodrat me t\u00eb cilat qe rritur. Kaq. Por… E ku mund ta dij\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e vog\u00ebl, se nj\u00eb bebe, mund t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohet aty p\u00ebr aty n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201crival\u201d. Vet\u00ebm kur k\u00ebrkesa e rip\u00ebrs\u00ebritur, iu p\u00ebrmbush, pa v\u00ebmendjen e s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, t\u00eb shp\u00ebrndar\u00eb. Pa kujdesin q\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte dhe e merrte bebja qaramane. Pa se motra e vog\u00ebl, nuk ishte aspak nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr n\u00eb dispozicion t\u00eb saj, si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb kish p\u00ebrfytyruar me mendjen e saj prej f\u00ebmije. Dhe… filloi t\u00eb xhelozohej duke befasuar edhe prind\u00ebrit e pap\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb reagim. Filloi t\u00eb vinte re se tashm\u00eb ishin dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, dhe si\u00e7 ndodh r\u00ebndom m\u00eb i vogli, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr bebe, k\u00ebrkonte m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb, m\u00eb shum\u00eb angazhim, p\u00ebrkushtim… Eh, deri para se t\u00eb mb\u00ebrrinte bebja, i gjith\u00eb angazhimi, p\u00ebrkushtimi, v\u00ebmendja i drejtoheshin asaj. Syt\u00eb e mamit dhe babit ishin vet\u00ebm mbi t\u00eb. E ku mund t\u00eb ishin tjet\u00ebr… Por tani… Kurse, mami Manjol\u00ebs s\u2019i mbetej ve\u00e7 t\u2019i kujtonte Megit letr\u00ebn q\u00eb vet\u00eb e kish shkruar (sigurisht t\u00eb ruajtur edhe sot, n\u00eb s\u00ebndukun e kujtimeve t\u00eb familjes). Sakaq, t\u00eb priste me durim kalimin e faz\u00ebs s\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb psikologjike p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb madhen, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e vogla, tek rritej po fillonte t\u00eb b\u00ebhej interesante. Tashm\u00eb ting\u00ebllon si di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur. Megi i ka mbushur t\u00eb 16-at, dhe ajo q\u00eb shpreh me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb qenien e saj, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dashuri e pakufishme ndaj t\u00eb motr\u00ebs, e p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb di dhe d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u2019i shtoj\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes dhe p\u00ebrkushtimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, edhe at\u00eb t\u00eb sajin, t\u00eb motr\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe k\u00ebsaj here. Ama, e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ishte faza q\u00eb kaloi, q\u00eb kishte form\u00ebn e xhelozis\u00eb shkaktuar nga nj\u00eb rivalitet mes motrash, q\u00eb psikolog\u00ebt din\u00eb mir\u00eb ta shpjegojn\u00eb si nj\u00eb fenomen normal dhe kalimtar.<\/p>\n

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\"Manjola<\/a>Gjithsesi Manjola Nallbani \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna e dy vajzave. \u201cM\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb dy vajza\u201d, thot\u00eb duke shpjeguar se \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo \u00e7\u2019kishte dashur gjithnj\u00eb, p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr t\u00eb shoqit q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrronte nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Do t\u00eb ting\u00ebllonte m\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm n\u00ebse edhe vet\u00eb Manjola do t\u00eb kish pasur t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn d\u00ebshir\u00eb me t\u00eb shoqin. Tek e fundit, pse jo,pas vajz\u00ebs, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Por k\u00ebng\u00ebtarja ka shpjegimet e vetap\u00ebr ket\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb. Ku ta dish pse, e ka ndjer\u00eb munges\u00ebn e nj\u00eb motre. Lidhja me t\u00eb v\u00ebllan\u00eb ka qen\u00eb, dhe vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb, tejet e fort\u00eb, ama n\u00eb p\u00ebrfytyrimin e saj nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr ishte shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. S\u2019ka gj\u00eb se shoqja e saj e ngusht\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb dhe rinis\u00eb s\u00eb hershme, ia b\u00ebnte t\u00eb qart\u00eb, se nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebrisht nj\u00eb shoqe, duke i rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e vet, dhe duke i shpjeguar karakteret e ndryshme q\u00eb dy motra mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb t\u2019i mbaj\u00eb t\u00eb larguara nga nj\u00ebratjetra. E megjithat\u00eb, kjo s\u2019e b\u00ebri Manjol\u00ebn t\u00eb mos vazhdonte t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrronte motr\u00ebn e munguar dhe, t\u00eb mos mendonte gjithnj\u00eb, gjat\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb s\u00eb dyt\u00eb, q\u00eb ti dhuronte Megit, pik\u00ebrisht nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr: M\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb mes vajzave ka nj\u00eb diferenc\u00ebmoshe. Sepse f\u00ebmij\u00ebrit\u00eb e t\u00eb dyjave i ka shijuar. Ama ka nj\u00eb problem t\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb po e sheh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb rritjes s\u00eb t\u00eb bijave: n\u00ebn\u00ebs i duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb kap\u00ebrcime t\u00eb atyp\u00ebratyshme apo shnd\u00ebrrime. Fillimisht i duhet t\u00eb merret me nj\u00eb 5- vje\u00e7are, dhe tekat e saj, here p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur, arg\u00ebtuese a relaksuese, e her\u00eb lodh\u00ebse. Pastaj i duhet t\u00eb shnd\u00ebrrohet: t\u00eb ulet e t\u00eb flas\u00eb n\u00eb kanape, me nj\u00eb t\u00eb \u201crritur\u201d, me nj\u00eb adoleshente, duke u p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb, p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs jo edhe aq t\u00eb leht\u00eb. Jo vet\u00ebm larg bot\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, por edhe tejet larg bot\u00ebs, interesave, mendimeve, koncepteve, k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimeve… t\u00eb vet\u00eb prindit. \u201cP\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb jem shoqe p\u00ebr time bij\u00eb\u201d. Thot\u00eb se flasin gjat\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb nj\u00ebra me tjetr\u00ebn. Megi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar ti rr\u00ebfehet s\u2019\u00ebm\u00ebs. Kurse kjo e dyta \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb dhe madje t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e duhur, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb sugjerimin e duhur. T\u00eb gjej\u00eb ekuilibrat. Dhe i kthehet kujtimeve t\u00eb larg\u00ebta, koh\u00ebs kur ajo vet\u00eb ishte adoleshente. Rreket t\u00eb imitoj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn apo m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se ajo e trajtonte Manjol\u00ebn, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ndihej mir\u00eb me mosh\u00ebn e vet, apo duke e ndihmuar her\u00eb pas here me mendimet apo sugjerimet p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat vajza kishte nevoj\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, Megi rezulton t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb shum\u00eb i mbar\u00eb. Me rezultate t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyera n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, por mbi t\u00eb gjitha nuk shfaq shenja t\u00eb nj\u00eb adoleshence t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. E k\u00ebtu Manjola ndihet me fat. Por nuk harron t\u00eb qart\u00ebsoj\u00eb se, p\u00ebr t\u00eb, fati vet\u00ebm nuk mjafton. Dhe k\u00ebtu e ka fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr shum\u00eb\u00e7ka, p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj n\u00eb vijim\u00ebsi: \u201cDuket sikur njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb eksperimente t\u00eb Zotit- thot\u00eb- por, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se k\u00ebt\u00eb besoj interpretimin sipas t\u00eb cilit: Zoti t\u00eb jep shum\u00eb\u00e7ka dhe mandej s\u00eb lartmi v\u00ebshtron aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e njeriut p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur dhuntit\u00eb apo, pse jo, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rikuperuar mang\u00ebsit\u00eb\u201d. E k\u00ebto duhet t\u00eb dish ti b\u00ebsh. N\u00eb mos, t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh ti b\u00ebsh, ndaj dhe fati i vet\u00ebm, shpesh nuk mjafton. Manjol\u00ebs shpesh fati i ka q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb krah, por edhe ajo, ka ditur ta kanalizoj\u00eb at\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet… Por le t\u00eb kthehemi te vajza adoleshente, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn mamaja \u00ebsht\u00eb idhulli, t\u00eb cilin fati ia ka v\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb, mund ta prek\u00eb, mund t\u00eb flas\u00eb me t\u00eb, ta d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb, t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb prej saj e sidomos, marr\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet e saj…<\/p>\n

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Po, idhulli i Megit ka emrin Manjola. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn kur e kupton se \u00e7do t\u00eb thot\u00eb em\u00ebr publik, fam\u00eb, reputacion e t\u00eb tjera k\u00ebsisoj, me shum\u00eb krenari 16-vje\u00e7arja, identifikohet me emrin e s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, s\u2019ka gj\u00eb se mbiemri i dallon n\u00ebn\u00eb e bij\u00eb. Ka shum\u00eb gjasa (s\u2019ka se si t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb ndryshe), po kaq krenare duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe me figur\u00ebn vizive t\u00eb s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, eleganc\u00ebn gjenetike, q\u00eb me \u00e7\u2019duket q\u00eb tani, ka fatin ta trash\u00ebgoj\u00eb. E vogla ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tilla gj\u00ebra, ndoshta do ti ngjas\u00eb s\u00eb motr\u00ebs n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje, kur t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Fundja a nuk i ndodh edhe vet\u00eb Manjol\u00ebs nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb? Edhe sot e gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn, ajo e gjen veten duke ia njohur s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs merit\u00ebn e siluet\u00ebs fine q\u00eb ka. \u201cE kam trash\u00ebguar prej saj\u201d, thot\u00eb sa her\u00eb ndodhet ball\u00eb komplimenteve p\u00ebr eleganc\u00ebn… Por edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq i p\u00eblqen q\u00eb t\u00eb gjej\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u2019u krahasuar me n\u00ebn\u00ebn. Sidomos kur krahasimi k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ket\u00eb paralele mes Manjol\u00ebs si n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb Manjol\u00ebs. Madje, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kudo, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim, e \u00ebma \u00ebsht\u00eb modeli i Manjol\u00ebs t\u00eb cilin i p\u00eblqen ta ndjek\u00eb. Pa pretenduar se nuk ka, tek tuk, gj\u00ebra t\u00eb s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs, q\u00eb nuk do ti imitoj\u00eb. Gj\u00ebra, t\u00eb cilat, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs personalisht, i takojn\u00eb brezit t\u00eb saj. E ka fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr prirjen q\u00eb kishin p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar p\u00ebr \u201ct\u00eb tjer\u00ebt\u201d, apo heqjen dor\u00eb nga disa k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi vetjake… \u201cSigurisht edhe un\u00eb i jap v\u00ebmendje \u201ct\u00eb tjer\u00ebve\u201d, por gjithsecilit aq sa meriton, dhe… ka aq pak njer\u00ebz n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ia vlen t\u00eb jetosh, apo edhe thjesht t\u00eb mendosh…\u201d. …Logjika e ftoht\u00eb, dhe racionaliteti duket sikur nuk kan\u00eb lidhje me natyr\u00ebn emocionale t\u00eb artistit. Por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, Manjola Nallbani i takon kategoris\u00eb s\u00eb njer\u00ebzve racional\u00eb. Dhe ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb q\u00eb mos jet\u00eb nj\u00eb rast i shk\u00ebputur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si funksionon, se si jeton… Sepse fundja, \u00ebsht\u00eb tep\u00ebr e logjikshme n\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb thot\u00eb. Sepse ting\u00ebllon shum\u00eb objektive kur flet, s\u2019ka gj\u00eb n\u00ebse objekti i bised\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo vet\u00eb, n\u00ebna e saj apo vajzat. Ndryshimi i brezave, s\u2019ka pse ta cenoj\u00eb objektivitetin…<\/p>\n

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…Zilja e celularit tring\u00ebllon s\u00ebrish. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb Sindi q\u00eb qan. \u00cbsht\u00eb Sokoli. T\u00eb tre, ai bashk\u00eb me vajzat, po e presin. Do t\u00eb nisen diku, p\u00ebr drek\u00eb…<\/p>\n


\nPanorama<\/strong><\/p>\n


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