{"id":47395,"date":"2011-06-06T11:08:23","date_gmt":"2011-06-06T10:08:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?p=47395"},"modified":"2011-06-06T11:24:35","modified_gmt":"2011-06-06T10:24:35","slug":"elsa-lila-une-dhe-evita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/06\/elsa-lila-une-dhe-evita\/","title":{"rendered":"Elsa Lila: Une dhe Evita"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>P\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00ebtarja e famshme flet p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj private. Ajo na surprizon s\u00ebrish. K\u00ebsaj here jo me z\u00ebrin e saj, jo me performanc\u00eb artistike por se s\u00eb shpejti do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Pret nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb do ta ket\u00eb emrin Evita. Edhe pse ka vendosur t\u00eb mos martohet ajo shijon k\u00ebt\u00eb moment si m\u00eb t\u00eb bukurin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj bashk\u00eb me djalin e \u00ebndrrave, italianin Alessandro. T\u00eb gjitha detajet e k\u00ebsaj dashurie ekzotike<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb artiste e lindur. Nj\u00eb personazh i rrall\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e madhe t\u00eb celebriteteve q\u00eb me spektrin e ndjeshm\u00ebris\u00eb artistike do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte \u00e7do audienc\u00eb ta adhuronte.<\/p>\n

E talentuar, e zhd\u00ebrvjell\u00ebt, me shum\u00eb pasione, nj\u00eb intelektuale me nj\u00eb shpirt t\u00eb lir\u00eb aventure. Kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb forta motivet q\u00eb e kan\u00eb nxitur drejt suksesit e drejt iniciativave q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ajo ka ditur t\u2019i jap\u00eb shijen e s\u00eb bukur\u00ebs, shijen e t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Elsa Lila na rr\u00ebfen me nj\u00eb stil gati poetik, duke zhvendosur imagjinat\u00ebn ton\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe n\u00eb vende t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme, mes magjis\u00eb s\u00eb ujit t\u00eb oqeanit dhe savanave afrikane.<\/p>\n

Pik\u00ebrisht atje si n\u00eb nj\u00eb film romantik aventure me skenar ekzotik, ku element\u00ebt e natyr\u00ebs nd\u00ebrthuren me ato t\u00eb shqisave dhe ndjenjave p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb bukur dashurie, por p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb krijese t\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb s\u00eb shpejti do t\u00eb lind\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Nuk e pyesim p\u00ebr k\u00ebng\u00ebn, p\u00ebr projekte muzikore apo performanca artistike por p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha detajet e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj private, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ajo kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb kishte folur.<\/p>\n

N\u00ebn qiellin e Madagaskarit, n\u00eb ujrat e kthjellta t\u00eb Oqeanit Indian Elsa Lila i dha jet\u00eb nj\u00eb jete t\u00eb re.<\/p>\n

Nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb martohet, as t\u00eb vishet nuse si shum\u00eb moshatare t\u00eb saj do t\u00eb donin. Bashk\u00eb m\u00eb Alessandron, djalin italian q\u00eb s\u00eb shpejti b\u00ebhet baba do t\u00eb presin ardhjen n\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb Evit\u00ebs, apo \u201cEv\u00ebs s\u00eb vog\u00ebl\u201d, q\u00eb p\u00ebr Els\u00ebn simbolizon shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr sesa \u00e7far\u00ebdo emri tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Guximi dhe kurajoja jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb e kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb arrij\u00eb suksesin ashtu si tani guxon t\u00eb pozoj\u00eb para objektivit t\u00eb fotografit shtat\u00eb muajshe shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, ashtu si Demi Moore e Monica Belluci nd\u00ebr t\u00eb vetmet aktore hollivudiane q\u00eb pat\u00ebn po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn kurajo.<\/p>\n

Mezi pret q\u00eb t\u00eb takohet me t\u00eb vogl\u00ebn e saj, Evit\u00ebn, ku fare pak dit\u00eb e ndajn\u00eb nga ardhja e saj n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Burimi i nj\u00eb muze t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, e cila do i jap\u00eb gjith\u00eb energjin\u00eb e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar melodin\u00eb e nj\u00eb k\u00ebnge, e nj\u00eb k\u00ebnge jete.<\/p>\n

Intervista<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si je njohur me Alessandron, tashm\u00eb shokun t\u00ebnd t\u00eb jet\u00ebs?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Alessandron e kam njohur gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtimi shum\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb ishullin e larg\u00ebt t\u00eb Madagaskarit n\u00eb Afrik\u00eb, vendi ku ai jeton q\u00eb prej pes\u00eb vitesh dhe punon si zhyt\u00ebs profesionist.<\/p>\n

Si ndodhi q\u00eb shkove atje?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ishte fundi i dhjetorit t\u00eb 2008-\u00ebs dhe un\u00eb sapo kisha mbaruar s\u00eb prezantuari p\u00ebr t\u00eb dyt\u00ebn her\u00eb Festivalin n\u00eb RTSH. E lodhur dhe e stresuar nga puna e madhe dhe prapaskenat e pak\u00ebndshme q\u00eb m\u00eb ndodh\u00ebn at\u00eb fundviti pune intensive, vendosa t\u00eb shkoja diku larg p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar Vitin e Ri dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u rigjeneruar disi psikologjikisht, shpirt\u00ebrisht dhe fizikisht.<\/p>\n

Un\u00eb dashuroj detin dhe mendova t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb nxeht\u00eb, prandaj, pasi studiova p\u00ebr t\u00eb qind\u00ebn her\u00eb hart\u00ebn e bot\u00ebs dhe gjith\u00eb vendet n\u00ebn ekuator, nuk e di pse, syt\u00eb m\u00eb shkuan te ishulli i madh i Madagaskarit. Pa e menduar gjat\u00eb, organizova udh\u00ebtimin dhe si zakonisht vet\u00ebm (pasi mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb t\u00eb udh\u00ebtoj vet\u00ebm) u nisa!<\/p>\n

Dhe atje kur mb\u00ebrrite e njohe q\u00eb dit\u00ebt e para?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb pushimit, e dehur nga ngjyrat, aromat dhe panoramat e k\u00ebtij ishulli magjeps\u00ebs, kuptova se nuk do largohesha dot aq kollaj nga ai vend. Duke qen\u00eb se un\u00eb jam zhyt\u00ebse q\u00eb prej disa vitesh, u drejtova tek nj\u00ebra prej q\u00ebndrave t\u00eb zhytjes n\u00eb ishull p\u00ebr t\u00eb prenotuar disa \u201cekskursione\u201d n\u00ebnujore.<\/p>\n

Aty\u2026ishte Alessandro! Q\u00eb nga ai moment, u b\u00ebm\u00eb gati t\u00eb pandash\u00ebm, si mbi uj\u00eb dhe n\u00ebn uj\u00eb (qesh). As un\u00eb e as ai, nuk e prisnim k\u00ebt\u00eb shp\u00ebrthim t\u00eb menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm ndjenjash\u2026vendos\u00ebm, thjesht t\u00eb ndiqnim instiktin dhe emocionin duke jetuar \u00e7do \u00e7ast n\u00eb maksimum! Ishulli me ngjyrat, aromat, palmat, r\u00ebr\u00ebn e bardh\u00eb dhe detin kristal ishin dhe jan\u00eb nj\u00eb peizash perfekt p\u00ebr t\u00eb filluar dhe jetuar nj\u00eb histori dashurie shum\u00eb romantike.<\/p>\n

Filluan arratisjet tona me vark\u00ebn e tij modeste n\u00ebp\u00ebr ishuj t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl paradiziak t\u00eb pabanuar, nd\u00ebrtimi i tendave n\u00ebp\u00ebr plazhe ku ekzistonim vet\u00ebm ne dhe ku darkave b\u00ebnim zjarr dhe piqnim peshqit q\u00eb kishim kapur n\u00eb vark\u00eb gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs si dhe sh\u00ebtitjet n\u00ebnujore n\u00ebp\u00ebr kopshte koralesh shum\u00ebngjyr\u00ebshe\u2026nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e bukur q\u00eb vazhdon ende dhe asnj\u00eb prej t\u00eb dyve nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb zgjohet nga gjumi!<\/p>\n

Si lindi pasioni i zhytjes tek ty?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sepse jam gjysm\u00eb vlonjate, se kam lindur n\u00eb kat\u00ebr korrik, se prind\u00ebrit e mi zhvendoseshin \u00e7do vit p\u00ebr pushimet verore n\u00eb bregdetin e mrekulluesh\u00ebm t\u00eb Vlor\u00ebs\u2026<\/p>\n

Ata m\u00eb kan\u00eb treguar q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb hedhur n\u00eb uj\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb dhe se m\u00eb p\u00eblqente dhe rrija e qet\u00eb. Kur u rrita, vazhdoja t\u00eb kultivoja nj\u00eb dashuri e pasion t\u00eb madh p\u00ebr det\u00ebrat e oqeanet, shihja me kuriozitet t\u00eb madh dokumentar\u00ebt n\u00ebnujore.<\/p>\n

Vendosa t\u2019i shihja me syt\u00eb e mi ato q\u00eb deri dje i kisha par\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb ekran duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb kurs zhytjeje n\u00eb vitin 2003, t\u00eb cilin e b\u00ebra n\u00eb Egjipt, n\u00eb Detin e Kuq.<\/p>\n

Je ndjer\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb rrezik gjat\u00eb zhytjeve?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sigurisht q\u00eb n\u00ebn uj\u00eb ndodhin shpesh t\u00eb papritura, her\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme, her\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme. Edhe mua m\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur t\u00eb shumta, por nj\u00ebra n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti ishte mbres\u00ebl\u00ebn\u00ebse.<\/p>\n

Isha 30 metra n\u00ebn uj\u00eb q\u00eb prej 20 min me Alessandron dhe disa zhyt\u00ebs t\u00eb tjer\u00eb\u2026ndodhesha n\u00eb oqeanin Indian n\u00eb ngushtic\u00ebn e Mozambikut. Koha ishte e keqe, uji i turbullt dhe rryma e fort\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment, rryma m\u00eb hodhi nuk e di se ku dhe papritur u gjeta totalisht e vetmuar n\u00eb mes t\u00eb oqeanit Indian n\u00eb thell\u00ebsin\u00eb 30 metra dhe pa pajisje p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer ringjitjen dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb lajm\u00ebruar n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe vendodhjen time.<\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb kafsh\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha e t\u00eb vogla n\u00ebnujore m\u00eb kalonin fare af\u00ebr\u2026histori e gjat\u00eb zgjidhja e situat\u00ebs, por pak me fat e pak me gjakftoht\u00ebsi arrita t\u00eb ringjitem n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe dhe t\u00eb me gjente varka me Alessandron, i cili po m\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimisht dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb koha kalonte tmerri i tij shtohej duke qen\u00eb se mendonte m\u00eb t\u00eb keqen duke njohur mir\u00eb detin dhe t\u00eb papriturat e tij. P\u00ebr fat, \u00e7do gj\u00eb shkoi m\u00eb s\u00eb miri!
\n\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

N\u00eb Madagaskar, k\u00ebto dy vitet e fundit ke shkuar shum\u00eb her\u00eb. <\/strong>Thon\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb z\u00eb \u201cIl mal d\u2019Africa\u201d. N\u00eb rastin t\u00ebnd ishte k\u00ebshtu apo ishte \u201cil mal d\u2019amore\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Patjet\u00ebr arsyeja kryesore \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cil mal d\u2019amore\u201d, por e nd\u00ebrthurur bukur me dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr Afrik\u00ebn, nj\u00eb kontinent q\u00eb mbart mbi l\u00ebkur\u00ebn e tij bukuri mahnit\u00ebse natyrore, tradita t\u00eb hershme tribale e histori t\u00eb dhimbshme t\u00eb popujve q\u00eb e popullojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Qiejt e Afrik\u00ebs me per\u00ebndimet marramend\u00ebse, xhungla dhe gjith\u00e7ka ajo fsheh brenda, banor\u00ebt me thjesht\u00ebsin\u00eb, virgjinitetin dhe prakticitetin e tyre. Koha q\u00eb duket sikur atje rrjedh shum\u00eb m\u00eb ngadal\u00eb\u2026t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb padyshim t\u00eb t\u00eb vij\u00eb \u201cil mal d\u2019Africa\u201d.<\/p>\n

Cila ishte ajo \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebri m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje tek Alessandro n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb njohjes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrshtypja q\u00eb kam patur p\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb njohjes ton\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta me at\u00eb q\u00eb kam tani pas dy vjet\u00ebsh pasi ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri shum\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb dhe transparent\u2026<\/p>\n

Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga Milano, qyteti i tij i lindjes q\u00eb prej rreth 17 vitesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur pasionin e zhytjes i cili menj\u00ebher\u00eb u kthye n\u00eb profesion. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ka q\u00ebndruar p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto vite n\u00eb vende ekzotike si Maldive, Meksik\u00eb, Egjipt, Santo Domingo, Kube, Venezuel\u00eb e shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb europian atipik. Jeton n\u00eb simbioz\u00eb me natyr\u00ebn dhe detin. P\u00ebrdor shum\u00eb pak celularin (sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar me mua), rri m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb vark\u00eb se sa n\u00eb makin\u00eb, nuk sheh televizor, ec\u00ebn zbathur, veshjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb jan\u00eb dyt\u00ebsore pasi jeton n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nxeht\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb i veshur si p\u00ebr plazh, kontrollon \u00e7do dit\u00eb ciklin e h\u00ebn\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb si do t\u00eb jet\u00eb batica apo zbatica dit\u00ebn e nes\u00ebrme p\u00ebr t\u00eb organizuar zhytjet, ka nj\u00eb raport krejt t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb me kafsh\u00ebt n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi dhe peshkaqenin n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ai i adhuron.<\/p>\n

Duket sikur ata e kuptojn\u00eb kur i ndeshim shpesh her\u00eb n\u00ebn uj\u00eb\u2026afrohen qet\u00ebsisht dhe largohen po aq qet\u00ebsisht.. Qyteti dhe jeta kaotike, moderniteti dhe gjith\u00e7ka ai sjell duket se nuk i p\u00ebrkasin minimalisht.<\/p>\n

Kur kthehet n\u00eb Itali p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb takuar (rrall\u00eb her\u00eb, pasi shkoj un\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh atje) duket tamam si ai peshku jasht\u00eb ujit. At\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb thot\u00eb: hajde kthehemi atje, k\u00ebtu t\u00eb shkon jeta d\u00ebm! N\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto m\u00eb ngjason shum\u00eb mua, dhe karakterit tim prandaj, besoj se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u201cka gjetur tenxherja kapakun\u201d!<\/p>\n

Sa problem \u00ebsht\u00eb distanca e madhe gjeografike midis jush?<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt nga \u00e7\u2019mund t\u00eb imagjinohet, distanca i ka ndihmuar raportit ton\u00eb. Frym\u00ebmarrja dhe largimi nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri her\u00eb pas here ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ndjenja dhe interesi p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin t\u00eb mbeten gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb maksimum.<\/p>\n

Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk na mbetet koh\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojm\u00eb n\u00eb rutin\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha na merr malli p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, gj\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb takohemi \u00ebsht\u00eb si her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, dhe kemi shum\u00eb histori e t\u00eb reja p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar q\u00eb na kan\u00eb ndodhur gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb largimit (q\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e kalon tre jav\u00ebshin apo muajin).<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Shtatz\u00ebnia ishte e pa parashikuar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mendoj se n\u00eb koh\u00ebrat moderne n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat jetojm\u00eb dhe me gjith\u00eb informacionin q\u00eb kemi \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb mbetesh rast\u00ebsisht shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Si un\u00eb dhe ai, ndjenim q\u00eb kishte ardhur momenti t\u00eb b\u00ebheshim prind\u00ebr\u2026<\/p>\n

Jan\u00eb ato ndjesi q\u00eb t\u00eb lindin natyrsh\u00ebm me kalimin e koh\u00ebs dhe mosh\u00ebs! Pastaj si ai dhe un\u00eb i adhurojm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. \u00cbnd\u00ebrronim t\u00eb dy t\u00eb kishim nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb pasi t\u00eb dyve na p\u00eblqejn\u00eb shum\u00eb\u2026dhe p\u00ebr fat natyra po na dhuron nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb!<\/p>\n

Kur e kuptuat q\u00eb ti ishe shtaz\u00ebn\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shtatz\u00ebnia ime filloi n\u00eb Madagaskar n\u00eb qershor t\u00eb 2010-\u00ebs. E zbuluam kur un\u00eb isha pes\u00eb jav\u00ebshe dhe nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, duke mos e ditur q\u00eb isha shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb, vazhdoja t\u00eb zhytesha \u00e7do dit\u00eb (sport i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb rrept\u00ebsisht i ndaluar n\u00eb gjendje shtatz\u00ebnie), t\u00eb hidhesha nga shk\u00ebmbinj 10 metra t\u00eb lart mbi uj\u00eb, me kishin pickuar mokafui (mushkonja tipike t\u00eb Madagaskarit q\u00eb mund t\u00eb mbartin dhe malarje), t\u00eb haja n\u00ebp\u00ebr baraket e ishullit ushqime (t\u00eb cilat un\u00eb i p\u00eblqej shum\u00eb) t\u00eb gatuara aty p\u00ebr aty me mjete rrethanore nga banor\u00ebt e ishullit n\u00eb kushte jo t\u00eb mira higjenike etj etj.<\/p>\n

Kur e zbuluam u kthyem menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb Itali p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb vizitat mjeksore e p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00ebse gjith\u00e7ka ishte n\u00eb rregull, duke qen\u00eb se un\u00eb \u201cnuk isha sjell\u00eb dhe aq mir\u00eb\u201d!<\/p>\n

Aty m\u00ebsuat q\u00eb ishte vajz\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Po. Dhe un\u00eb i propozova ta quanim Evita q\u00eb n\u00eb spanjisht do t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cEva e vog\u00ebl\u201d. Eva doja ta quaja n\u00eb kujtim t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs sime. Dhe ja ku jam tani, n\u00eb muajin e tet\u00eb e ajo l\u00ebviz e shkallmon brenda trupit tim.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb ndjesie t\u00eb jep kjo gjendje?<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket ndjesis\u00eb se t\u00eb paturit nj\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore brenda teje, gjakun e gjakut t\u00ebnd, e cila jeton me ty, ushqehet nga ty, rritet brenda teje, mund t\u00eb shkruaj nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr m\u00eb vete. \u00cbsht\u00eb eksperienca m\u00eb e bukur, m\u00eb emocionuese, m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e saj.<\/p>\n

Kam qar\u00eb me dit\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra nga g\u00ebzimi dhe lumturia dhe tani q\u00eb i ka ardhur fundi, me zor pres ta \u201ctakoj\u201d e ta mbaj n\u00eb krah\u00eb e t\u00eb shoh se \u00e7\u2019fytyr\u00eb ka, \u00e7\u2019karakter ka, \u00e7far\u00eb z\u00ebri ka kur qan, gjith\u00e7ka!<\/p>\n

Ti je nj\u00eb natyre \u00e7apk\u00ebne dhe e zhd\u00ebrvjell\u00ebt. Shtatz\u00ebnia t\u00eb ka ndryshuar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un\u00eb dhe Evita nuk kemi ndalur nj\u00eb \u00e7ast deri m\u00eb sot. Kemi fluturuar pa fund sa p\u00ebr pun\u00eb e sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb Madagaskar.<\/p>\n

Kemi l\u00ebvizur t\u00eb dyja me motor n\u00ebp\u00ebr qytet dhe vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebvizim edhe tani\u2026Natyrisht q\u00eb \u00e7do l\u00ebvizje q\u00eb b\u00ebj e b\u00ebj me kujdesin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh, ndon\u00ebse kam vazhduar t\u00eb jetoj sipas natyr\u00ebs sime.<\/p>\n

Po p\u00ebr martes\u00eb keni menduar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si un\u00eb dhe ai respektojm\u00eb n\u00eb maksimum personat q\u00eb zgjedhin t\u00eb martohen, por ne nuk jemi dakord me k\u00ebt\u00eb form\u00eb rituali. Personalisht mendoj se n\u00ebse midis dy njer\u00ebzve ka nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dashurie dhe respekti, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e nevojshme t\u00eb betohesh para Per\u00ebndis\u00eb apo ligjit.<\/p>\n

Besoj se \u201cburokracia\u201d n\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rastet, si fetare dhe ligjore, nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb fare me lidhjen shpirt\u00ebrore midis dy personave, prandaj ne nuk do t\u00eb martohemi!<\/p>\n

N\u00ebse do t\u00eb jetoje n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri mendon se do t\u00eb ishte e mundur t\u00eb b\u00ebje nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb pa b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb p\u00ebrpara?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Edhe n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kisha jetuar n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri do t\u00eb kisha q\u00ebne koherente me mendimet dhe principet e mia dhe do t\u00eb kisha vepruar n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Po familja, gjysh\u00ebrit me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ti je shum\u00eb e lidhur dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tu si e prit\u00ebn?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Babai im i cili do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet gjysh p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, motra ime e dashur, gjysh\u00ebrit e mi t\u00eb dashur q\u00eb b\u00ebhen st\u00ebrgjysh\u00ebr, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit dhe miqt\u00eb e prit\u00ebn lajmin e ardhjes s\u00eb Evit\u00ebs me nj\u00eb emocion e dashuri shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kujdesen gati \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet telefonit duke u informuar mbi ecurin\u00eb dhe sh\u00ebndetin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ke filluar t\u00eb blesh robat roz\u00eb p\u00ebr Evit\u00ebn?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nuk m\u00eb ka r\u00ebn\u00eb radha t\u00eb blej ende veshje p\u00ebr t\u00eb, pasi dhuratat e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb shumta sa e ka pothuajse gati gard\u00ebrob\u00ebn p\u00ebr gjasht\u00eb muajt e para t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

Madje nga Shqip\u00ebria, si gjyshja por dhe disa mikesha q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb zonja t\u00eb punojn\u00eb me shtiza e pun\u00ebdore, m\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur komplete e kuverta shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukura t\u00eb b\u00ebra me dor\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat do t\u2019i ruaj m\u00eb pas si kujtim.<\/p>\n

Alessandro p\u00ebr momentin \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb Madagaskar. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta p\u00ebrballosh k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb paralindjeje vet\u00ebm?<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00eb fakt un\u00eb kam vazhduar t\u00eb b\u00ebj n\u00ebnt\u00eb or\u00ebt e fluturimit deri atje deri n\u00eb dhjetor, prandaj nuk shihemi vet\u00ebm q\u00eb prej nj\u00eb muaji. Megjithat\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i kujdessh\u00ebm t\u00eb m\u00eb rrij\u00eb af\u00ebr me telefon dhe internet dhe shum\u00eb shpejt do t\u00eb jete k\u00ebtu p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar s\u00eb bashku muajin e fundit t\u00eb shtatz\u00ebnis\u00eb dhe muajin e par\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb Evit\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

M\u00eb pas do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr largim t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr nga ana e tij, dhe m\u00eb pas, kur Evita t\u00eb jet\u00eb forcuar e rritur pak, rreth tre muajshe, do t\u00eb udh\u00ebtojm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku drejt ishullit magjik ku gjith\u00e7ka filloi!<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Ke frik\u00eb se lindja mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb trupin t\u00ebnd?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deri tani n\u00eb muajin e tet\u00eb nuk kam p\u00ebsuar transformime apo deformime. Kam shtuar pak n\u00eb pesh\u00eb. Jam pothuaj ajo q\u00eb kam qen\u00eb por me barkun e madh e t\u00eb rrumbullak\u00ebt normal t\u00eb nj\u00eb gruaje shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Kam besim se pas lindjes, me pak forc\u00eb vullneti do t\u00eb rikthehem n\u00eb gjendjen e m\u00ebparshme. Edhe n\u00ebse nuk rikthehem ajo q\u00eb isha, p\u00ebr mua nuk p\u00ebrb\u00ebn aspak problem, pasi nuk i kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb prioritet trupit por t\u00eb tjera gj\u00ebrave.<\/p>\n

Po p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket k\u00ebng\u00ebs mendon se rritja e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb kosto?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mendoj se Evita do t\u00eb m\u00eb frym\u00ebzoj\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb m\u00eb jap\u00eb forc\u00eb dhe energji akoma m\u00eb pozitive p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb projekte t\u00eb bukura muzikore n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen e af\u00ebrt.<\/p>\n

Ardhjen e saj e ndiej dhe e shoh si shtys\u00eb drejt kreativitetit akoma m\u00eb t\u00eb madh dhe aspak si penges\u00eb. Besoj se kur t\u00eb shoh syt\u00eb dhe buz\u00ebqeshjen e saj, poezit\u00eb e tingujt do t\u00eb lindin vetvetiu duke harruar bot\u00ebn e realitetin e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb na rrethon p\u00ebrdit\u00eb e na e ngurt\u00ebson fantazin\u00eb dhe ndjenj\u00ebn. Prandaj: Forca Evita!<\/p>\n

Mendon t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihesh politik\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un\u00eb vendosa t\u00eb sjell n\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb! Ndodhi sapo dola nga nj\u00eb grev\u00eb urie e organizuar nga Opozita p\u00ebr vot\u00ebn e lir\u00eb. Hyra si nj\u00eb qytetare europiane, koshiente p\u00ebr nj\u00eb p\u00ebrballje t\u00eb eg\u00ebr me dhembjen dhe vuajtjen vetjake, duke dashur q\u00eb vajza ime t\u00eb vinte n\u00eb jet\u00eb jo n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb dhembjes dhe t\u00eb vuajtjes.<\/p>\n

N\u00ebse kjo gj\u00eb dikujt i duket se \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrfshirje n\u00eb politik\u00eb, i them se sot klithma p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se k\u00ebrkesa p\u00ebr buk\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb politika e vetme q\u00eb i duhet k\u00ebtij vendi!<\/p>\n

Revista Shqip
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