{"id":49052,"date":"2011-07-17T15:00:19","date_gmt":"2011-07-17T14:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?p=49052"},"modified":"2011-07-17T15:00:21","modified_gmt":"2011-07-17T14:00:21","slug":"ami-pas-10-vitesh-nje-bashkeshorte-e-mire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2011\/07\/17\/ami-pas-10-vitesh-nje-bashkeshorte-e-mire\/","title":{"rendered":"Ami: Pas 10 vitesh, nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorte e mir\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ajo i ka ngjitur dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb shkall\u00ebt e karrier\u00ebs, si\u00e7 rrall\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb fakt me vajzat e bukura q\u00eb ndjekin rrug\u00ebn e artit. N\u00eb fillim nj\u00eb balerin\u00eb profesioniste, showgirl e m\u00eb pas prezantuese n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga produksionet m\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, si\u00e7 ishte \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d. Amarda Toska ka tashm\u00eb nj\u00eb profil publik, q\u00eb e dallon nga t\u00eb tjerat: balerin\u00eb, showgirl, moderatore si dhe nj\u00eb biznes-woman n\u00eb karrier\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49054\" title=\"Amarda-Toska-2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>E p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha bashk\u00eb, ajo tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb personazh publik. \u00cbsht\u00eb shigjetuar nga mediat, \u00ebsht\u00eb mikluar prej tyre, me q\u00ebllimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb skalitur gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb profil ndryshe t\u00eb saj, por Ami me shum\u00eb fines\u00eb t\u00eb drejton atje ku do ajo dhe rrall\u00eb her\u00eb ndodh e kund\u00ebrta. N\u00eb fakt, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr MAPO-n, Amarda Toska nuk vjen ndryshe nga profili i saj, por ajo vjen t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht ndryshe nga profili i saj publik.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Televizioni dhe biznesi, dy karriera q\u00eb ecin paralelisht me Amin. Por sa ka ndryshuar Ami e televizionit nga Ami e biznesit?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Biznesi q\u00eb un\u00eb kam \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre i lidhur me pun\u00ebn e nj\u00eb artisti, sepse ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me krijimtarin\u00eb, me t\u00eb bukur\u00ebn, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb kesh edhe shpirt artisti p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur sukses n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj biznesi. Krijimtari jan\u00eb dekorimet, por edhe p\u00ebrzgjedhja e koleksioneve nga pasarelat, panairet apo sfilatat e fustaneve t\u00eb nuseve. Por nuk mendoj se kam ndryshuar. Un\u00eb jam akoma n\u00eb fillimet e mia n\u00eb nj\u00eb biznes q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb tashm\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cbrand\u201d n\u00eb tregun shqiptar dhe q\u00eb do t\u00eb trash\u00ebgohet edhe te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, po \u201cp\u00ebrpiqem\u201d t\u00eb ndryshoj te vetja ca gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mbase nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb karrier\u00eb n\u00eb biznes. Q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se, duhet t\u00eb jesh pak m\u00eb e vrazhd\u00eb, m\u00eb e eg\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb, ku nuk duhet t\u00eb mendosh se ndoshta t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt l\u00ebndohen, por duhet t\u00eb mendosh si t\u00eb b\u00ebsh pun\u00ebn t\u00ebnde sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb. Cil\u00ebsi k\u00ebto q\u00eb n\u00eb fakt un\u00eb nuk i kam, sepse jam pak e but\u00eb n\u00eb karakter. Megjithat\u00eb, po punoj q\u00eb edhe k\u00ebto t\u2019i fitoj me kalimin e koh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Konkurrenca \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb n\u00eb biznes apo n\u00eb art?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7do profil ka v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta. Thuhet se n\u00eb art \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb konkurrenc\u00eb e pashprehur, por shum\u00eb e fort\u00eb p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb e njohin at\u00eb bot\u00eb. Por edhe biznesi, sigurisht karakterizohet nga nj\u00eb konkurrenc\u00eb e fort\u00eb, q\u00eb p\u00ebr disa \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb kufijt\u00eb e luft\u00ebs p\u00ebr ekzistenc\u00eb e p\u00ebr disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb \u2013 lufta e ambicia p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur nivele t\u00eb larta p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebrie dhe kualifikimi. Por un\u00eb mendoj se konkurrenca \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb v\u00eb ingranazhet n\u00eb l\u00ebvizje, pa konkurrenc\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kishte motivim.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49056\" title=\"Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"655\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Si i alternon Ami dy karrierat paralele: biznesin dhe televizionin?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim i kam pasur t\u00eb dyja dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre u b\u00ebn\u00eb pjes\u00eb e imja. Dua t\u2019i kem q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja, p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe e plot\u00ebsuar. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb kam impenjime artistike, dhe kjo gj\u00eb sigurisht m\u00eb merr koh\u00eb, ndiej q\u00eb m\u00eb mungon p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebria e pun\u00ebve n\u00eb agjenci dhe anasjelltas. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb jam m\u00ebsuar q\u00eb k\u00ebto dy shina t\u00eb ecin paralelisht. Por nuk e mohoj se ka periudha ku b\u00ebhet e lodhshme, ka sezone q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si ndryshon prezantimi nga nj\u00eb spektak\u00ebl humori, n\u00eb nj\u00eb produksion t\u00eb madh, si\u00e7 ishte ajo e \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d apo n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit prezantimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj kudo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Absolutisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb. Un\u00eb pata shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pesh\u00eb, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe angazhim si moderatore te \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb them se ishte e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi jan\u00eb krejt t\u00eb ndryshme. N\u00eb \u201cPortokalli\u201d daljet ishin t\u00eb kalkuluara dhe gjith\u00e7ka ishte skematike, ku nuk mund t\u00eb dilje jasht\u00eb korniz\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa tek Dancing kishte dhe t\u00eb papritura.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Si ndryshon prezantimi nga nj\u00eb spektak\u00ebl humori, n\u00eb nj\u00eb produksion t\u00eb madh, si\u00e7 ishte ajo e \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d apo n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit prezantimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj kudo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Absolutisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb. Un\u00eb pata shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr pesh\u00eb, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe angazhim si moderatore te \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb them se ishte e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb, p\u00ebrkundrazi jan\u00eb krejt t\u00eb ndryshme. N\u00eb \u201cPortokalli\u201d daljet ishin t\u00eb kalkuluara dhe gjith\u00e7ka ishte skematike, ku nuk mund t\u00eb dilje jasht\u00eb korniz\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa tek Dancing kishte dhe t\u00eb papritura.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00eb fakt, duket e kund\u00ebrta n\u00eb ekran\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sigurisht q\u00eb duket e kund\u00ebrta, prandaj ata q\u00eb punojn\u00eb te \u201cPortokallia\u201d jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb profesionist\u00eb; p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb duket sikur gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb spontane. Por n\u00eb fakt, \u00e7do gj\u00eb aty \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00ebmenduar dhe e kornizuar, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb te Dancing, edhe pse kishte nj\u00eb skenar, n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste u lihej vend edhe t\u00eb papriturave, pyetjeve spontane, batutave. P.sh. nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb skenar, kur ke nd\u00ebrveprim me nj\u00eb juri jo fort \u201ct\u00eb urt\u00eb\u201d, ose kur ke protagonist\u00eb artist\u00eb t\u00eb njohur q\u00eb k\u00ebrcejn\u00eb n\u00eb sken\u00eb dhe nga momenti n\u00eb moment mund t\u00eb thon\u00eb di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb performuan n\u00eb sken\u00eb. Sepse nuk duhet harruar q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb konkurrim ku tensioni dhe egoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb prezent. Por un\u00eb isha me fat q\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetova k\u00ebt\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb, sepse mendoj se \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d forcoi dhe konfirmoi pozitat e mia n\u00eb sken\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb tashm\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtuar nj\u00eb spektak\u00ebl t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, ku duhet t\u00eb menaxhosh jurin\u00eb, konkurrent\u00ebt, publikun etj.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49055\" title=\"Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"385\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00eb bukur?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb teori shum\u00eb e njohur! Natyrisht q\u00eb pamja e jashtme ndikon, sepse \u00e7do njeri \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i mikluar, m\u00eb i t\u00ebrhequr dhe ka nj\u00eb perceptim m\u00eb pozitiv n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb krejt t\u00eb pand\u00ebrgjegjshme ndaj t\u00eb bukur\u00ebs, sesa ndaj nj\u00eb tjetri q\u00eb, jo p\u00ebr faj t\u00eb tij, por ashtu e ka krijuar natyra, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb m\u00eb pak i bukur. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijshme, \u00e7do njeri e p\u00eblqen t\u00eb bukur\u00ebn k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb t\u00eb them se nuk ndikon bukuria, sidomos te femrat dhe sidomos n\u00eb televizion.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pushimet ideale do t\u00eb ishin ato ku do t\u00eb arg\u00ebtohej shum\u00eb n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb \u201cAqua Parc\u201d apo n\u00eb \u201cDisney Land\u201d, ku Ami \u00e7mendet pas trenave t\u00eb shpejt\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe loj\u00ebrave me pull\u00ebn e kuqe t\u00eb rrezikut\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ami, femra \u201cPiter Pan\u201d e ekranit<\/p>\n<p><strong>Besoni n\u00eb Zot?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Po, besoj.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn do ta etiketonit veten?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E k\u00ebndshme.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ju etiketojn\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E \u00ebmb\u00ebl.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Armanda-Toska-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49059\" title=\"Armanda-Toska-1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Armanda-Toska-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"770\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Makina e par\u00eb q\u00eb keni pasur dhe ajo q\u00eb keni aktualisht?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Makina e par\u00eb ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb Benz 190, nd\u00ebrsa e fundit q\u00eb kam \u00ebsht\u00eb Fiat 500, versioni i fundit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb do b\u00ebje p\u00ebr para?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do b\u00ebja shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, si\u00e7 dhe jam p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb b\u00ebj, sepse paraja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga motor\u00ebt kryesor\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb njeriut. Un\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb mbi dy pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk do b\u00ebje p\u00ebr para?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sigurisht nuk do shkelja mbi principet dhe parimet e mia morale, p\u00ebr t\u2019u penduar m\u00eb pas gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sa vler\u00eb kan\u00eb idealet p\u00ebr Amin n\u00eb k\u00ebto koh\u00eb q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nuk jam shum\u00eb idealiste. Duhet t\u00eb jesh pak natyr\u00eb elastike n\u00eb k\u00ebto koh\u00eb, mendoj. Nuk mund t\u2019i mbahesh q\u00ebndrimeve t\u00eb tua me fanatiz\u00ebm, pa par\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019b\u00ebhet rreth e rrotull, pa kuptuar ku jeton. Duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatesh, qoft\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb minimizuar streset e p\u00ebrditshme dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i dh\u00ebn\u00eb vetes m\u00eb tep\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi, sepse \u00e7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb ik\u00ebn nuk kthehet m\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pes\u00eb gj\u00ebrat p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat, sipas Amit, ia vlen t\u00eb jetohet?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ia vlen t\u00eb jetohet p\u00ebr t\u2019u rrethuar nga njer\u00ebzit e dashur, q\u00eb jan\u00eb familja. Ia vlen t\u00eb jetohet p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb trash\u00ebgimtarin t\u00ebnd e p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb rritet. P\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi nga arritjet e tua n\u00eb jet\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb i vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsuar. Ia vlen t\u00eb jetohet, sepse ka shum\u00eb vende t\u00eb bukura p\u00ebr t\u2019u par\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb eksperienca p\u00ebr t\u2019u jetuar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Martesa, \u00e7far\u00eb ngjyre ka p\u00ebr ty?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ylber ku mungon, ose, m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, nj\u00eb ylber ku duhet t\u00eb mungoj\u00eb e zeza.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dita juaj ideale?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nuk di si do ta p\u00ebrkufizoja, por mjafton q\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs t\u00eb m\u00eb ket\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb at\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb pozitive dhe kur t\u00eb shtrihem n\u00eb krevat t\u00eb them \u201cOh sa dit\u00eb e bukur sot!\u201d, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ajo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ardhur n\u00eb forma nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49058\" title=\"Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-4\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"290\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7far\u00eb b\u00ebn Ami kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dua t\u00eb iki, t\u2019i shmangem rrethit, ose njeriut, q\u00eb m\u00eb ka m\u00ebrzitur dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb xhiro me makin\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Udh\u00ebtimi q\u00eb keni \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar, por q\u00eb s\u2019e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb akoma?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebto vitet e fundit kam udh\u00ebtuar shum\u00eb, pothuajse udh\u00ebtoj \u00e7do muaj. Madje, para pak dit\u00ebve po b\u00ebnim nj\u00eb bilanc me Ermalin dhe po qeshnim, sepse v\u00ebrtet nuk kalon as nj\u00eb muaj dhe na del ndonj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb. T\u00eb dy i kemi shum\u00eb qejf udh\u00ebtimet, kryesisht ato aktive. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 muajit t\u00eb mjaltit n\u00eb Karaibe, nuk kemi q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb asnj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 7 dit\u00eb. Na p\u00eblqen si deti, ashtu edhe mali, sidomos skit\u00eb dhe pushimet dim\u00ebrore. Por pushimet ideale do t\u00eb ishin ato ku do t\u00eb arg\u00ebtoheshim shum\u00eb n\u00eb ndonj\u00eb \u201cAqua Parc\u201d apo di\u00e7ka t\u00eb ngjashme me \u201cDisney Land\u201d, t\u00eb cilat na p\u00eblqejn\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u2019u rikthyer n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri, jo, por besoj se aty shprehet m\u00eb tep\u00ebr ai shpirti yn\u00eb f\u00ebminor, q\u00eb gjendet akoma te ne dhe sinqerisht jan\u00eb pushimet ideale p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy ne. Kudo q\u00eb shkojm\u00eb marrim informacion m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, ose pyetja e par\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb n\u00eb hotel \u00ebsht\u00eb: ku \u00ebsht\u00eb destinacioni m\u00eb i af\u00ebrt p\u00ebr n\u00eb parkun e loj\u00ebrave t\u00eb tipit Disney.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rikthimi n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri t\u00eb jep ndjesin\u00eb e liris\u00eb apo thjesht \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshira q\u00eb shpesh kan\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sigurisht q\u00eb ta jep dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjesi, por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se un\u00eb mendoj: \u201cAh sikur t\u00eb jem dhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb e vog\u00ebl\u201d. Sado q\u00eb t\u00eb rritem, do dua gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj s\u00ebrish gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb b\u00ebn nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, sepse nuk dua q\u00eb mosha t\u00eb m\u00eb diktoj\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb duhet dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Qenkeni nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb \u201cPiter Pan\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quaje si t\u00eb duash, por nuk do doja q\u00eb mosha t\u00eb m\u00eb rrethonte n\u00eb kornizat e veta. Kjo gj\u00eb nuk dua t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, ose, m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, kjo lloj ndjesie p\u00ebr t\u00eb vrapuar pas loj\u00ebrave na vjen n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavullnetshme, si mua edhe Ermalit.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49057\" title=\"Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-3\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-dhe-Ermali-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"666\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Besoj se atje ke lirin\u00eb t\u00eb sillesh si f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Po, patjet\u00ebr, atje po nuk u solle si f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk shijon asgj\u00eb. Ne t\u00eb dy karakterizohemi nga nj\u00eb lloj d\u00eblir\u00ebsie dhe sjellje f\u00ebminore kur jemi me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, si n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb duam t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb, kur shohim ndonj\u00eb film apo kur lozim Win n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi \u201cu lejohet\u201d meshkujve t\u00eb ken\u00eb shpirt \u201cPiter Pan\u201d, por nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr b\u00ebn pak p\u00ebrshtypje, sepse n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi natyra e femr\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb pak m\u00eb e t\u00ebrhequr nga jeta e loj\u00ebrave?!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Femrat jan\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim pak t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequra, por un\u00eb kam dhe mikesha q\u00eb e p\u00eblqejn\u00eb aventur\u00ebn e loj\u00ebrave dhe un\u00eb jam nj\u00ebra prej tyre. E di q\u00eb nuk ta jap fare p\u00ebrshtypjen dhe kur takohemi me miq dhe vendosim t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb park loj\u00ebrash, n\u00eb fillim suprizohen, por kur m\u00eb shohin pastaj se n\u00eb loj\u00eb jam e para\u2026\uf04a<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00eb p\u00eblqen edhe t\u00eb fitosh, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 t\u00eb tjerave?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Jo, t\u00eb kuptohemi\u2026 Nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb loj\u00ebrat ku q\u00ebllimi kryesor \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb arrihet fitorja. Mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb loj\u00ebrat ku arrihet adrenalina, si\u00e7 jan\u00eb trenat e shpejt\u00ebsis\u00eb apo loj\u00ebrat me pull\u00ebn e kuqe t\u00eb rrezikut.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Njeriut q\u00eb i besoni m\u00eb shum\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019i kam besuar shoq\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr gjera thelb\u00ebsore t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime. Ose e kam mbajtur vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vete, ose e kam ndar\u00eb me familjen dhe sigurisht me Ermalin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Personi q\u00eb ju njeh m\u00eb mir\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb s\u00ebrish familjen dhe Ermalin do them.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-49053\" title=\"Amarda-Toska-1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/Amarda-Toska-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"660\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ku e sheh Ami veten pas 5-10 vjet\u00ebsh?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kryesisht e shoh nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorte t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe familjare. T\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb tjerat do t\u00eb jen\u00eb sekondare dhe plot\u00ebsuese n\u00eb 10-vje\u00e7arin e ardhsh\u00ebm. Ka prioritete. Un\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebshtu kam filluar ta ndiej k\u00ebto koh\u00ebt e fundit. Mosha 20-30 vje\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushja e objektivave q\u00eb ti ke n\u00eb karrier\u00eb, ose n\u00eb formimin t\u00ebnd p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb dikush, ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka, pastaj mendoj se prioritetet ndryshojn\u00eb dhe duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrkushtohesh m\u00eb shum\u00eb familjes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kjo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me mosh\u00ebn, thoni ju?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Jo, ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me t\u00eb vet\u00ebndjerin. Un\u00eb k\u00ebshtu e kam klasifikuar. Pas t\u00eb 30-ve \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u2019i dedikohesh familjes dhe presupozohet q\u00eb deri n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u2019i kesh vendosur mir\u00eb themelet e formimit dhe karrier\u00ebs t\u00ebnde, q\u00eb m\u00eb pas t\u00eb kesh luksin t\u00eb shijosh etap\u00ebn e radh\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u2019iu p\u00ebrkushtuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb familjes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ajo i ka ngjitur dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb shkall\u00ebt e karrier\u00ebs, si\u00e7 rrall\u00eb ndodh n\u00eb fakt me vajzat e bukura q\u00eb ndjekin rrug\u00ebn e artit. N\u00eb fillim nj\u00eb balerin\u00eb profesioniste, showgirl e m\u00eb pas prezantuese n\u00eb nj\u00eb nga produksionet m\u00eb t\u00eb suksesshme n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, si\u00e7 ishte \u201cDancing with the Stars\u201d. 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