{"id":66537,"date":"2012-12-06T19:42:16","date_gmt":"2012-12-06T18:42:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/?p=66537"},"modified":"2012-12-07T15:12:16","modified_gmt":"2012-12-07T14:12:16","slug":"ulcinjanke-zrtve-nasilja-u-porodici-i-dalje-vjeruju-da-je-jaci-pol-zaista-jaci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/06\/ulcinjanke-zrtve-nasilja-u-porodici-i-dalje-vjeruju-da-je-jaci-pol-zaista-jaci\/","title":{"rendered":"Ulcinjanke, \u017ertve nasilja u porodici, i dalje vjeruju da je ja\u010di pol zaista ja\u010di"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/dhuna-ne-familje.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-66538\" title=\"dhuna-ne-familje\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/dhuna-ne-familje.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"508\" height=\"332\" \/><\/a>Pravo mu\u0161karaca va\u017enije od zakona <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>ULCINj \u2013 \u017dene u Ulcinju i dalje vjeruju da je pravo mu\u0161karca ja\u010de od bilo kog zakona i zbog straha od gubitka djeteta prinu\u0111ene su da trpe nasilje u porodici, saop\u0161tila je na konfrenciji za novinare direktorica SOS telefona Hatid\u017ea Neljaj.<br \/>\nPrema njenim rije\u010dima, u najju\u017enijoj op\u0161tini takva situacija je oduvijek jer, kako je istakla, osim li\u010dnih stavova, uvjerenja i predrasuda, koji uti\u010du na nevidljivost nasilja, a time i na nepostojanje adekvatne reakcije dru\u0161tva, va\u017ean uticaj ima i to \u0161to se o nasilju nad \u017eenama ne govori, i \u0161to se smatra da je to porodi\u010dni problem u koji se ne treba mije\u0161ati.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Hatixhe-Nelaj_ulqin.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-66539\" title=\"Hatixhe-Nelaj_ulqin\" src=\"http:\/\/www.visit-ulcinj.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/Hatixhe-Nelaj_ulqin.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a>\u2013 SOS telefon na sve na\u010dine poku\u0161ava da promijeni takvu svijest. Brojni su projekti, s kojima svim silama tra\u017eimo na\u010din da iskorijenimo patrijarhalan stav iz glave \u017eene 21. vijeka \u2013 kazala je Neljaj i dodala da Ulcinjanke malo poznaju zakonska prava i vjeruju prijetnjama nasilnika da \u0107e im uzeti djecu, da ih niko ne mo\u017ee za\u0161tititi, da je uzalud da bilo \u0161ta poku\u0161avaju.<br \/>\n\u2013 Ubije\u0111ene su da bi im ako se razvedu mu\u017eevi uzeli djecu i da nemaju pravo da ih povedu sa sobom, jer djeca pripadaju porodici \u010dije prezime nose. \u017dene smatraju da je sramota razvesti se, te pojedine nerijetko provedu \u010ditav svoj \u017eivot trpe\u0107i nasilje \u2013 kazala je Neljaj.<br \/>\nOna smatra da slu\u017ebenici institucija jo\u0161 uvijek nijesu dovoljno senzibilni ni obu\u010deni za specifi\u010dan rad sa \u017eenama \u017ertvama nasilja, pa ih sami \u010desto diskrimini\u0161u i poni\u017eavaju.<br \/>\n\u2013 \u017dene sa iskustvom nasilja, klijentkinje SOS telefona pokazuju visok stepen nezadovoljstva na\u010dinom na koji ih slu\u017ebenici razli\u010ditih institucija prihvataju i neadekvatnom podr\u0161kom koju im pru\u017eaju. Ne postoji mjesto gdje mogu da razgovaraju, da osjete po\u0161tovanje i razumijevanje i da ne budu dodatno diskriminisane. \u017drtve nasilja tvrde da se nakon posjete institucijama osje\u0107aju krivim za sve \u0161to im se de\u0161ava, i zbog izostanka podr\u0161ke na na\u010din na koji je o\u010dekuju, jo\u0161 se manje osje\u0107aju bezbjedno i sti\u010du utisak da iz situacije nasilja ne postoji izlaz \u2013 navela je Neljaj.<br \/>\nZbog toga je, tvrdi ona, od izuzetnog zna\u010daja individualna podr\u0161ka koju aktivistkinje obezbje\u0111uju \u017ertvama nasilja, a koja podrazumijeva specifi\u010dnu feministi\u010dku podr\u0161ku, stalno prisustvo aktivistkinja tokom davanja izjava, podno\u0161enja prijava policiji i tokom sudskog postupka.<br \/>\n<strong>M.K.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Informator o nasilju<\/strong><br \/>\nPovodom 16 dana aktivizma u borbi protiv nasilja nad \u017eenama, iz SOS-a su najavili publikaciju Informatora, u kom \u0107e biti objavljeni statisti\u010dki podaci o rasprostranjenosti nasilja nad \u017eenama, kao i pravne regulative, koje \u0107e koristiti \u017ertvama nasilja.<br \/>\n\u2013 Informator \u0107e biti od velikog zna\u010daja i za same slu\u017ebenike, jer \u0107e u njemu prona\u0107i sve klju\u010dne informacije i uputstva, neophodna za efikasnu intervenciju \u2013 istakla je Neljaj.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Izvor: DAN<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pravo mu\u0161karaca va\u017enije od zakona ULCINj \u2013 \u017dene u Ulcinju i dalje vjeruju da je pravo mu\u0161karca ja\u010de od bilo kog zakona i zbog straha od gubitka djeteta prinu\u0111ene su da trpe nasilje u porodici, saop\u0161tila je na konfrenciji za novinare direktorica SOS telefona Hatid\u017ea Neljaj. 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